What a day filled with emotion today, as we paused to reflect on the 9/11 catastrophe and read of the continuing horrors in our own gulf coast areas. Our hearts and prayers go out to the victims and their families in these disasters. One can only hope that miracles are being worked that serve the Lord’s greater purpose, and that we are prepared to do our part when called upon.
Meanwhile, Miss Lea had a good day today. She worked five hours on the ventilator, and was given the rest of the day off. She has a little bit of yellow mucous in her lungs, and we are hoping that we can avoid another serious respiratory relapse by resting her until the culprit bacteria is identified, and antibiotics can be prescribed.
The surgeons who were preparing to do her bandage change last night as I left, got delayed, and didn’t get her dressing changed until four o’clock this morning. She ran a low-grade temperature this morning, but had it under control by mid-afternoon, and in fact, I covered her with a sheet and blanket tonight at about six o’clock, because she started shivering. It could have been chills, or it could have been the effects of narcotic withdrawal. But, it made me feel better.
She slept most of the day today, and pretty much refused to open her eyes, or otherwise follow any commands. Put your hand under her hand or ankle as though you were going to lift them, though, and she would grimace terribly. She must feel terrible pain, and anticipates it, because she knows it is going to hurt before you do anything. And, they say, you don’t remember any of what is going on. But, she is remembering the intense pain day to day. Go figure.
I lubed her up pretty good today with body lotion, and worked on several of the dry skin areas to soften and remove dead skin on her heels, toes and fingers. Her skin color is very good, and the skin condition is very good, with a nice healthy sheen to it. Her color really improved quite a bit yesterday after sitting up in the cardiac chair. That will probably be an every-other day event for a while, until her general strength improves, and it can be more frequent.
Her medications stayed at the same levels they were on Friday, and they will begin reducing them again tomorrow morning. Her blood pressure looks good, her heart rate was a little on the quickish side, but her oxygen saturation was very good. She received less insulin per hour today, and was getting her nourishment from the milk shake thick mixture being tube fed into her small intestine.
I learned tonight that the mid-level nurse practitioner is going to recommend to Dr. Mah that Lea be started on some physical therapy right away, to get her joints loosened up, and make sure her range of motion is ready for her to wake up. We are at the point that we should start experiencing more periods of alertness as she continues to be weaned from the narcotic drugs. She needs to feel as good about herself as possible when she’s awake, so we’ll pay particular attention to her personal condition, nails, skin, hair, etc.
I just thank God for the wonderful blessings He has given all of us through this experience. I have seen so many heartwarming things happen in these past eight weeks, and have seen many, many folks come closer together with their loved ones, their fellow Christians, and to God.
My personal perspective has also changed. I can’t remember a time when I didn’t have a dialogue with God going on, but nothing as intense as I have experienced recently. I have always trusted God, but didn’t realize that I had allowed myself to limit how much I was willing to trust in Him, when the low times let me focus more on my personal misery than on what lessons He was leading me through.
I have had the joy of hugging the necks of fellow believers here on the nursing staff, chaplains and other volunteers and employees. (You can feel the warm glow of a Christian’s heart when you hug.) I even had a visit from a wonderful lady who was in Hartford visiting family, and wanted to come by the hospital and pray with me. I can only hope that the work the Lord has had me do here will continue reaching hearts and stirring souls to awareness of His infinite goodness.
In His service,
Larry
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March 28, 2007 at 12:08 pm
Pray-ers
DAY FIFTY-EIGHT
FROM: Larry Vaughn
Sept 11 @ 9:51 PM
Hey, mom, Lance said to call you and tell you that I’m taking care of myself, but you aren’t home to answer your phone. I’m fine. Taking care of Lea, taking care of my classes, taking care of me. We got D.C.’s greeting card last week, and were very touched by his tenderness. Please be sure to thank him for us. His thoughts were precious to both of us.
I don’t have time for social stuff right now, I need to stay focused, so I don’t take time to call and gab. I try to stay in a routine, most of which is being with Lea to take care of her when I can, working or sleeping when I can’t. This will be over soon, and we will return to a more normal life. Right now, I have to do everything I can to try to help her as much as possible. Anything less would be cheating her. She deserves as much as I can give, and I will make sure that I stay strong to take care of her.
I’ve had a bit of a sore throat recently. Dr. Miller called in an antibiotic for me to the local pharmacy, and I am starting to feel better, although I have refrained from kissing her until I kick the bug. She looks so pretty now, it’s tough not to kiss her, but I resist. Man, I want to give her a great big full body hug!! Quit worrying. The bible says worry is a waste of time, bad for your health, and a demonstration of your lack of faith. I’m fine.
God is using me as His tool right now. He will take care of me until it’s time for me to go to my reward. Some of us get our reward earlier than others. I hope I get mine first, and that hers is much better, I always wanted to know someone rich and famous. 🙂 She’ll be celebrated in heaven, just as she is here on earth. I am privileged to be able to help her now when she needs someone to give everything for her. I pray to God for strength and direction, and He is delivering it by the wheelbarrow load every day. No worries.
REPLY FROM: Marjorie
Sept 12 @ 12:25 AM
Thank you for the call….Just to hear your voice is a medicine for me. I am fine. I was wondering if you were doing your rehab??? That is part of your good health that will keep you strong for LEA.I am so happy with the good news from day to day and sorry when reality smacks us on the nose. The Lord has been good to us and we are all Thankful for his mercy. I know that the prayer groups are still remembering you and Lea and hope for her healing. My, how wonderful to know His Love for us.
DC and I went to Charlotte and Richie’s for a TEA to celebrate Kim’s Birthday on the 13th of this month. It was a nice time. I am sorry that I missed your call.( I need you to tell me how to make an indentation for a new paragraph). Lou Pierce and I went up to Christopher’s for a BLT and then on to the Music Hall in Atlanta, she dropped me here and then Lou continued home. That was a nice visit.
I think David is on his way to Saint Louis today. I love you my SON and keep you in my heart and one day I will give you a BIG hug. I too will plan to be there to help care for our darling Lea.. She would be there for ME. I love her very much…She has been like a daughter to me and I am thankful for that Please tell her I LOVE her and am waiting on her to go shopping some time soon.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
Sept 12 @ 9:27 AM
At the end of a paragraph, or thought, press “Enter” two times, to make a new paragraph. Just like on a typewriter. (Two carriage returns.) I am not doing rehab right now, because of my classes giving me so little time to be with Lea in the mornings. I am getting my class schedule changed to 12:30 & 2:00, so I will have more time in the mornings, and will still be able to go to gym and see her before doing my classes. That schedule will start in a couple of weeks, so I can get back on my rehab program.
REPLY FROM: Marjorie
Sept 12 @ 8:58 PM
As soon as I read how to, I remembered that you had told me before! Thanks for taking the time to answer. I am so happy to hear Lea got to sit in the Cardiac Chair, sitting up is a normal function of our bodies and I think it was surely a positive step in Lea’s Mind somewhere. I just thank God for all of his love and care he has given to Lea and the family. We shall always be grateful for his mercy and the miracles he has given. Remember to give Lance a drink of water. I love you my Son and daughter n law (I never did like the inlaw thing) because of how much I love you. Hugs and Kisses Mother