Hi, everyone,
I’m an emotional wreck tonight. After sitting up most of the night with Lea as the staff worked to return her to a stable state, seeing the small wins and the losses, being asked to leave the room while they did something I’m sure is horrible, visiting the cafeteria (can I get a YUK!?), and seeing her finally stabilize after about ten hours of really hard work, we had a pretty emotional day shift.
For most of the shift today I wasn’t allowed in the room. I went to rounds this morning at 6:00 a.m. and the doctors told me that they were pulling out the big guns in a last ditch effort to turn Lea around. Several procedures were planned, two different ultrasound tests, the bronchial suction to remove liquid from her lungs, implant of yet another special IV line called a P.I.C.C. line, installation of a SWAN (a catheter that goes directly into the heart to report what’s going on in there), more medications, including a wonder drug that has helped turn some very sick patients around very quickly.
One of my first objectives this morning was to ask the hospital’s social worker for a Family Conference to help us understand Lea’s condition. I requested the Family Conference for next Monday, since Dr. Mah, Lea’s attending physician is on vacation this week and would need to get up to date. The Nurse Practitioner on duty said, “You can’t wait until Monday. This was a significant event. You need to do it today.”
This afternoon at 5:00 P.M. the hospital set up a conference call with Lea’s sons, brother, sister, and their spouses, to get an update on Lea’s situation from the surgeon, Dr. Kirton, and the Nurse Practitioner, Ellen Gleason. Dr. Kirton started by giving a general update, followed by questions and answers. He stated that three days ago he had closed up the left side of her incision because she was surgically well enough. However, ever since that procedure she required more ventilator and blood pressure support.
There wasn’t any new infection in the abdomen when they looked at it yesterday, so they feel the closing of the wound was not the direct cause of the problem. He also said that everyone who is on the ventilator for extended periods gets pneumonia, so her pneumonia was not a surprise. The surprise was the amount of ventilator support she required, coupled with the cardiac events she suffered the previous two days, indicates a likely blood clot in the lungs.
In the last 24 hours they have taken some proactive steps to improve her chances of overcoming this setback. They installed the IV Filter which will catch blood clots traveling toward the lungs and preventing a recurrence of the lung problem. The changed mechanical support from the ventilator (by paralyzing her own lungs), are clearing pneumonia from the lungs via suction, and have put her in a new bed which helps prevent the fluids in the lungs from pooling.
For the first time in the previous 48 hours, they had been able to wean her completely off her blood pressure support medication, came down a little on the ventilator support, and gave her a designer “wonder” drug to help slow any other problems from developing.
Currently, he said, we have a stable situation; with hopes the new drug will “turn her around,” although we have a significant risk of her not surviving the next 36-48 hours. The medical staff is doing everything possible to give her every chance of survival, and will be working very hard to see that she makes it through the weekend. The lung problem will lengthen her hospital stay a minimum of another three weeks.
He has committed to giving us a revised estimate of her chances of survival by Monday, and assured us that he will tell us if there is no longer a reasonable chance for her. “We” asked during the conference call whether her condition warrants continuing attempts to sustain her. The Nurse Practitioner stated that it is definitely worth it at this point; the lungs can get better; the kidneys are getting better; the pancreas is getting better. In fact, before this lung problem occurred, they felt that her chances of survival were 80%. Now they feel her chance is 30%. (Remember when it was only 15%?)
The next 36-48 hours are critical to her survival. This is the time we need to pray for guidance for the medical staff that they decisions they make are those that help her, and that Lea receives another blessing of miraculous healing. It has worked again and again during her illness, and it will happen this time, too.
Thank you for your loving thoughts and prayers on her behalf,
Larry
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March 28, 2007 at 10:02 am
Pray-ers
DAY THIRTY-FOUR
FROM: Link
Aug 18 @ 3:35 AM
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2. Heaven by Randy Alcorn; Hardcover
FROM: Lion Tom
Aug 18 @ 7:23 AM
Lion Larry; Thanks, keep us informed, if we can help you in any way let us know.
FROM: Larry Vaughn
Aug 18 @7:43 AM
Link, This is the president of the Tipton Lions Club, just north of Atlanta. Your mom and I, along with Pat and Joe, have helped them out from time to time. We may want to send them info on the fund for mom.
FROM: Dean
Aug 18 @ 8:46 AM
Dear Larry, Your strength and dedication and your devotion to Lea and God are a Source of Great Inspiration for me. Thank you.
FROM: Lance
Aug 18 @ 12:53 PM
Lea’s chances dropped from 80% to 30% yesterday and the next two or three days are critical. The family would like to see if anyone would like to visit Larry this weekend, to be strong for him and to provide a loving distraction. Joe is being transported back to Indiana today, so Larry’s on-site support network is gone. He’s alone during a critical period, which is very undesirable.
Please let me know by replying to this email if you’re interested in visiting for a few days or longer, if possible. If needed, we can offer to pay for your flight or we have Skymiles that we can make available. God bless.
FROM: Kay
Aug 18 @ 1:36 PM
Dearest Vaughns, This is Kay… we’re in Colorado.. have just called Lea’s 800 number and found out that her night was ok.. We’re praying for all of u… kinda tough being on vacation and not being able to feel as in touch as we’ve been. JB is hard at work building a deck.. Lea would have loved watching JB and Chris working yesterday.. they dug 4 holes .. not wholes but holes.. filled them with 6 bags of concrete!!!! big wholes 🙂 they most definitely are not halves but wholes… Chris drug about 30 bags of concrete around the house to the deck area… think JB worked him kinda hard but he survived .. haven’t heard from him yet today to find out how his body lasted the night. The whole family will gather on Saturday and finish the project.. JB will dig 3 holes today and tear off the old deck.. big doings.. We do miss Larry’s daily updates and Lea is very very much on our hearts. Love to you.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
Aug 18 @ 2:03 PM
Kay, Attached is yesterday’s email update. Lea suffered acute decompression of the lungs early yesterday morning, caused by low blood pressure, low heart rate, and low oxygen absorption. She is sicker than she has been for quite some time. We are having a family conference via telephone with the doctors here in Hartford this afternoon to hear where she is on the recovery curve . . . she was at 52% probability, but now has suffered a major setback. We may have to make a very hard decision regarding future treatment. Keep us in your prayers, please. Love to you and your family.
FROM: Marlowe
Aug 18 @ 3:17 PM
Dear Larry, We have increased our prayer efforts and are holding you and Lea constantly in our hearts with the last crisis. It is just amazing what new techniques the medical field have come up with since we were in med. school. It must be some consolation to you to see that everything known to medicine is being used to keep Lea going! Certainly she would have died long ago in “the old days.”
We are in Austin now, and the past two days I have attended daily mass at our home church, praying for Lea and lighting a candle for her. I have told everyone I speak to there to pray for her and you. I have added her name to the prayer list of our Divine Mercy Society, which prays in front of the Blessed Sacrament each Friday afternoon at three o’clock, considered the hour of Divine Mercy, since it when Our Lord is believed to have died for us. And of course I continue to forward your beautiful and inspirational e-mails to my friends and family “pray-ers.”
Our hearts particularly go out to you in your devoted and faithful vigil by Lea’s bedside. We can’t imagine the anguish you must feel with all the ups and downs and crises she is going through. This last update was especially touching and inspirational with your courageous and loving release of Lea to God’s arms if that be His will. That was no easy prayer, I know!
That is how I have prayed all along. But it does seem like her rallying each time is an indication of her strong will and fight to live, but perhaps also of God’s will for her. Certainly there must be an important purpose for her to still be with us despite all the suffering. I know her situation and your strong expressions of faith touched all those I’ve asked to pray, as well as Dean and myself. We naturally try to imagine ourselves in a similar situation and are challenged by asking ourselves if our faith would be as strong.
It is very evident that the Lord is with you there and has you both enfolded in His Loving Arms. Hang in there!
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
Aug 18 @ 8:22 PM
Marlowe, Thank you, and Dean, for your very kind notes. It has been a wonderful boost to me to read your notes of encouragement, keeping in mind your own perspective on personal tragedies. I love you for your kindnesses, and look forward to a time when Lea and I can visit with you again. God’s blessings.
FROM: Tom
Aug 18 @ 4:15 PM
Larry, I have not sent any notes to Lea – but that doesn’t mean she hasn’t been in my thoughts constantly, and my prayers daily. I am a daily church goer, and I have lit a candle each day since the accident asking God to keep her in his prayers for recovery, and have asked the congregation that joins me at the daily mass to keep her in their prayers. Like you I believe in the power or prayer – and yet we both know that God doesn’t always answers our prayers in the manner in which we would most like.
I have been amazed at your strength and your obvious love and devotion. It comes thru very clearly in your daily chronicles of the ups and downs of Lea’s recovery. I have to guess the daily writing is somewhat a catharsis for you and keeps you going. At this point you must be exhausted. I have a son, Thomas, that was in a serious car accident 20 years ago and was in a coma for 5 to 6 weeks. I didn’t live at the hospital like you did, but I visited morning, noon and night.
Often I have been asked how I did it. They didn’t think they could – and my only answer is you just do it – one day at a time, and one step at a time, and just pray for the best. My prayers were answered in that Tom is now a productive adult with a Masters in Social Work helping other people. How much better could God answer your prayers? So, my friend, even though I am not writing, I am with you in prayer and thought, and I hope we can read your daily chronicles for days to come, because it will mean Lea is with us, and with you. Hang in there. CHEERS.
FROM: Stacy
Aug 18 @ 6:54 PM
Right now you are both in my thoughts and prayers. I am in awe on your strength and I know you are facing hard days ahead. All I can say is that I will continue to pray and do what I can to help. You are both an example to us all.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
Aug 18 @ 8:26 PM
Stacy; Thank you, too, for your notes. Love to you and your lovely family.
FROM: Jim and Ruth
Aug 18 @ 9:00 PM
Larry , Just a quick note to let know we are with you on what has to be done. We all were shocked and what the call ended up being. We all had this thought all day that here life support was being taking off. You might have gotten that from some of the questions we asked. I really hope Lea can make it and be her old self. Your email said you had some pictures but I was unable to get them. Could you try and send them again. I will be praying for Lea and also you to have the strength to get through this. I don’t think it is in our hands, but the good Lord will help with what has to be done. He will help you come to the right decisions. Sure hope you don’t have to make any decisions.
Take care of your self and keep us informed. I get up in the night to see if any messages have been left, but most our in the morning. Take care and we love you and Lea very much. Call any time if you need to just talk. Love ya.
FROM: Larry Vaughn
Aug 18 @ 10:00 PM
Nearly forgot to report to you that our friend, Joe Stroup flew home by air ambulance at about 6:30 p.m. He was expected to arrive in Indianapolis at around 8:00 p.m. local time. He will be admitted to the Carmel Cardiac Hospital for approximately three weeks to complete his recovery. Remember when I asked you to pray for Joe to receive Christ in his heart? He told me today, sobbing when he learned of Lea’s condition, that he had been praying for her recovery! Praise God for letting us be a part of His ministry. Please continue to keep Joe in your prayers.
FROM: Judy
Aug 18 @ 10:55 PM
I will say an extra prayer for you tonight when i say my prayers. God be with you and your family.