Wow! August already! I guess I’ve sort of lost track of time in the last couple of weeks. Everything that has happened seems like a blur, as though time has just flown by, and yet each day seems so very terribly long and grueling. It is extremely difficult to be at Lea’s bedside and not be able to communicate with her. I like to read the emails and greetings to her, and even though she can’t respond, I hope that she hears my voice and enjoys the messages you send.
The hospital prints out the eGreetings sent through their website, and I print out your email messages, so she will have those to read when she wakes up again. It will make her adjustment to the loss of all this time much easier to know that our thoughts and prayers were around her throughout her illness. She will have a lot to deal with, but she is a strong person, and I will do everything possible to help her through that adjustment.
I had a conversation with the surgeon who operated on Lea today, a Dr. Ivy. He has been present when Dr. Mah operated on Lea previously, and now has done her last two operations. The session today was conducted in her ICU room, rather than in the Operating Room. Dr. Ivy said that he believes he sees some improvement, although there is still significant swelling present in the wound, and she is not yet out of danger. She remains in critical condition.
He said that when they pressed on the pancreas in previous operations, evidence of infection was present. Today, when he pressed on the right side, there was no indication of infection, although some still remains on the left side. He said that she is tolerating the surgeries “quite well,” and that she is rebounding within a couple hours of each surgery, which is a good indication, and cause for optimism.
Lea continues on the dialysis. As I told you yesterday, the nurses had increased the amount of fluid they were removing from her body. They increased from 25 cc an hour to 50 cc an hour. Dr. Ivy said they had taken six pounds of fluid off of her yesterday! Her blood pressure dropped some early today, so they stopped taking fluid off, and just held her constant where she was, to see if she would stabilize again. They will watch her closely tonight to make sure she does okay.
Once she rebounds and stays stable for a day, they will start taking fluid off again . . .probably at the 25 cc level, I’m guessing, to see how she does. If she continues to rebound well, and handle the draw off of fluids, they will be able to get her back to her normal weight in a few weeks. She already looks much, much better, and as nurse Shelley, who took care of her once last week said, “I thought I was in the wrong room when I saw her!”
I can’t say enough about the nursing staff here at Hartford Hospital. They have just simply been outstanding. They really care about Lea, and take extra precautions to make sure she is comfortable, and that tubes don’t lay on her so long as to make sores on her. They are always very busy when they are working with her; changing fluid bags, changing her dressings, readjusting her position in the bed, rubbing her back and legs with lotion, etc. They have even washed her hair a couple of times, and put a string “bow” in her hair. Some of the nurses are just so caring and kind to her that I find myself wanting to give them a big hug. I sure am going to owe a lot of hugs of appreciation when this ordeal is over!
Dr Ivy mentioned today that it will probably be about another month before they can quit operating on Lea. If they continue to operate every other day, as they have been, that will be another 15 surgeries . . . 20 total! She will continue to be heavily sedated for at least two weeks after the final surgery, in all likelihood, because she will still be on the ventilator, and will have to been weaned off of that machine, and learn to breath on her own again. Gosh! Six more weeks of these one sided conversations! At least I get to have the final word for a change!
Thanks for all the comments about the photo of Lea I included with the message last night. Here another one of her cutting up for the camera. If you can’t download these for some reason, Lance will soon have these and more on the prayer page. I am including contact information below, with some corrections in mailing addresses, etc.
God bless and keep you. Thank you for your continued kindnesses.
Larry
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March 15, 2007 at 9:38 am
Prayers
DAY SEVENTEEN RESPONSES
FROM: Barb S
Aug 1 @ 2:38 PM
Hi. It is so good to hear you are inching your way to recovery. You have touched so many lives even though right now you may not know it. People who don’t know you personally are taking a second look at their lives. They are all seeing how precious life is. You have become a part of their lives and they send you their prayers daily. (all my parents ask how you are doing each day)
Your brothers, sister, cousins, aunts, uncles, in-laws and friends need you to use that faith and strength you have to fight this long fight you have to recover and come home to us. Your family has always been a close one, but, I think they are even closer now. They want you to use some of their strength and love to help you battle this sickness.
I sent you a picture of you and mom and all the brothers and sister taken not long after dad died. It is one that some say they didn’t have. Anyway, it is just to let you know that they are all watching over you, even mom and dad. When you get better, I think we should have a big family celebration. A celebration of life and family and friends. You just get better and let me know when you are ready to make some new memories and I’ll send out the invitations! OK. Remember, we love you very much.
FROM: Marilyn
August 1 @ 4:24 PM
Larry, I am so lucky that Jack, Kimmy, Leslie D. Conn, and Pam have worked to keep me informed of the struggle Lea and you now face. Please know that I am thinking and praying for both of you and for your children as you face each new day. I am smitten with your insight and ability to express your love and devotion for your help mate, your faith in our awesome God, and, at the same time, keep a sense of humor and as you send updates on each bit of progress.
FROM: Link
August 1 @ 5:42 PM
Dad – Thought you might enjoy these kind words from Cheryl…
—–Forwarded Message—–
FROM: Cheryl
Monday, August 1 @ 11:28 AM
Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us Link, they will help all of us take some time from our busy days to reflect on our families and loved ones, and to appreciate each and every moment of life so very much. My Mom suffered with ovarian cancer for almost five years, and although we could not save her as I know in my heart your Mom will recover, I have never really lost her….she is in my heart and I feel her presence every day. You are an incredible family and are in our prayers every moment. Take care of yourselves as well, this is taking a toll on all of you and you need to stay healthy and strong for your Mom and Dad, which I know you will. Maybe you and Deanna should have a pineapple martini and toast your Mom, I am sure your Mom will know and appreciate it!! 🙂
FROM: Lion Steve
August 1 @ 5:52 PM
May the hand of God be on those that are in need this day. May his mercies be plentiful so that we can show the world it was from Him. My hope and prayer is that next we hear from you, we can hear about more of His miracles. May God’s sweet spirit be with you and those around you during this time. VDG Steve, Lions Clubs of Indiana
FROM: Sherri
August 1 @ 6:51 PM
Larry, How are you holding up, my friend? I am worrried about you! I am including you in our prayers and prayer chain…..Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I am getting the daily updates from Lou – and am following Lea’s progress closely. I would like to send Lea some cards… the old fashioned way, via regular mail. Could you please send me her mailing address Thanks – and know Lea and your family are in MANY MANY prayers.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
August 1 @ 8:40 PM
Thank you, Sherri. This will be very important to her, because I know she considers you to be one of her closest friends. You can send cards to her at Hartford Hospital, 80 Seymour Street, Hartford CT 06106. Thank you for your continued friendship.
FROM: Dottie
August 1 @ 8:13 PM
Q: What is the shortest chapter in the Bible?
A: Psalms 117
Q: What is the longest chapter in the Bible?
A: Psalms 119
Q: Which chapter is in the center of the Bible?
A: Psalms 118
Fact: There are 594 chapters before Psalms 118
Fact: There are 594 chapters after Psalms 118
Add these numbers up and you get 1188.
Q: What is the center verse in the Bible?
A: Psalms 118:8
Q: Does this verse say something significant about God’s perfect will for our lives?
A: “It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.” Now isn’t that odd how this worked out (or was God in the center of it)?
Before sending this I said a prayer for you: “Father God bless Larry & Lea in whatever it is that you know
they may be needing this day! And may their lives be full of your peace, prosperity and power as they seek to have a closer relationship with You. Amen”
When things get tough, always remember…Faith doesn’t get you around trouble, it gets you through it !!
GOD BLESS YOU!!