Hi, everyone,
What a wonderful experience it has been to receive your well wishes and continuing prayers on Lea’s behalf. I read every single email and egreeting to her, and can’t help but include the love and passion, interlaced with tears, that you include in your notes. I have made up a 3-ring notebook binder for her, and am keeping all your messages in it so she can read them when she awakens again next month. I feel a little silly reading the messages to her, because I can’t help weeping at the wonderful expressions of love and tenderness. It woudln’t be so bad if the nurses didn’t get teary eyed too. They know your love for Lea, and that Lea is a very special lady, and believe me, it makes a difference in the way they care for her.
She had, overall, a pretty good day. She had surgery again this afternoon, during which a few more small areas of dead tissue were removed from the pancreas. The surgeon said, “Not much, really.” He also said that the internal swelling had gone done enough that he was able to tighten her up . . . meaning that she had much less packing, and a smaller hump on her tummy after the surgery. Her blood pressure dropped a little low after the procedure, so she had to go back on a wee bit of medication to increase it. The nurses also could not get the dialysis machine hooked back up to her after the surgery, and were planning to replace the port in her right groin with a new one, so they could get her hooked up. The surgeon also told me earlier today that they would be taking more fluid off of her, which will reduce her bloating.
Although she remains very, very sick, she continues to be in stable condition. Her temperature was just a little high tonight when I left the hospital (100.9) and the nurse was watching it to see how high it would go. There is usually no infection until it reaches 102 degrees. If it got that high tonight, they would take a blood culture to determine where and what it is so they can get after it right now. It could also simply be a reaction to being moved to and from the operating room, and shuffling of her internal organs during the surgical procedure. The nurse, Lynn, also promised to update the voice mail late tonight, because everyone has been so busy keeping up with her 20 drips, dialysis, drawing blood every two hours, turning (shifting) her every two hours to prevent bed sores, and all the other things they have to do, the updates have not gotten recorded.
One of the fun things we did today was play a DVD recording of our 2004 Christmas video for her, along with Lance’s Christmas song and Christmas story. It was a wonderful Christmas at the Walton House in Atlanta, with all the family gathered around. The recording started with the Birthday Party for Jesus, which we do on Christmas eve. The dinner table was resplendent in candlelit silver and blue decorations and snacks and treats to consume by the warm fireside. The evening included reading of the Christmas story from the bible, and other holiday traditions, including new pajamas for the granddaughters just before bed.
I’m sure Lea enjoyed listening, and recreating in her mind, the many scenes from the Christmas morning opening of gifts, followed that evening by what we loosely term a “talent” show. It is usually full of laughs as we poke fun at ourselves and share skits and other silliness. An example was a skit by Link and Deanna, who live in Hawaii, who did the 12 Days of Christmas in Hawaiian “pigeon,” a slangy language the Hawaiians use. It was hilarious, and I nearly expected Lea to smile when it was played.
She is scheduled to go back into surgery again Friday, again in the operating room, to check for any signs of infection, irrigate the entire area, and hopefully be able to close her up some more. What I mean by that is that after the initial incision was made, there was about an eight inch gap in between the two edges due to the swelling. I would estimate that it is down to about five inches now, and of course, we want it to go back to normal real soon, at which point they will allow it to begin healing from the inside out. I look forward to that day, because it is from that point they begin the two weeks until they will let her wake up.
We received several eGreetings from the hospital website today, and several emails from you as well. Please forgive me if I don’t respond to you right now with a personal email, but know that your thoughts and prayers are appreciated very much, and that your outpouring of love and devotion for Lea is humbling to me and her immediate family.
For those of you who have heard the whole story, and know that our neighors from Atlanta are here with us, here’s an update on Joe. He has now been diagnosed as having had a pulmonary embolism which caused him to go into aortic fibrulation, which we treated as a heart attack, which was the right thing to do. He is now breathing on his own, the ventilator having been removed three days ago. His voice is returning, color is improving, and he is getting tired of being in the hospital.
He still has a blood clot in his heart, and his heart is still in fibrulation. The doctors will “paddle” him at some point, when he is strong enough, to get his heart back into a regular rhythm. If he continues his current rate of improvement, he will likely be discharged in two weeks or so. His wife and son are here with him rotating shifts to sit with him at all times, and I have use of their truck whenever I need it to go get supplies, etc. I am staying in a room in former nursing student quarters adjacent to the hospital, and have received my office equipment, shipped from home, so I can teach my classes from here.
I am putting your notes and comments up on the bulletin board in Lea’s room so it will be inspiring when she is able to once again open her eyes. If you have a favorite photo of her, or anything of that nature that you’d like me to print out and hang up for her, just drop me an email with the graphic attached. I enjoy reading your notes to her, and holding the picture up in front of her closed eyes so she can see it. I know that somewhere, deep down in her consciousness, she knows that I’m being funny. She would expect nothing less!
Love to all, and thank you again for your love and prayers,
Larry
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March 14, 2007 at 8:29 am
Prayers
DAY TWELVE RESPONSES
FROM: Larry D
July 27 @ 1:21 AM
Larry, My thoughts are with you, Lea, and the whole Vaughn family every day…Don’t forget to take care of yourself too! Once she’s up and around again we don’t want you to end up back in her place… She’s strong and has the best support possible so I have faith that if anyone can pull through and have a full recovery it’ll be her!
FROM: Gayle
July 27 @ 3:17 AM
Hey Lea, Just want you to know that I am thinking of you every moment and praying continually for you to get well. I am enjoying my last morning at home before starting my school year. I have my room just about ready and moved things around and am very pleased with it. I was appointed one of two tech teachers at our school and have my own little computer lab in my classroom. I have 6 computers, a scanner and printer and Jim made a great bench underneath the ledge that held everything so now there is plenty of room and it looks good.
I am required to use technology in my teaching lessons and encourage others on staff to add more technology in their classrooms. Six or seven years ago I was afraid of computers, but now just am fascinated with it all. I have a web page that my students will be updating daily that can be accessed from home for homework, news, etc. I also do special work on the rain forest, penguins, fish, and a book called Because of Winn Dixie that will all integrate technology in my room for this first year.
This year should be an exciting one although there are many changes taking place. I will be one of the inclusion classrooms for 4th grade, too, which means that I will have half of the special needs children in my room. This school has been the best ever for me and has helped me to grow as a teacher. The 2 principals are amazing and the most supportive I have ever had in my career. I believe I was led to this school by God (sometime I will tell you that story) and have been so blessed with this “family”.
I often think of your mom and how much she wanted to be a teacher. She continues to inspire me with her love of children. I remember the work she did at the Church of Christ in Hannibal and how much she was loved. I try always to honor her and remember that teaching can be my ministry.
Just a few notes about the family–Todd and Robin are expecting their second child Feb. 12th. Melinda and Kevin’s son, Kadin, begins kindergarten next week (where does time go?) and Angie and Bob are doing great. Angie’s son, Cody, broke his arm really badly at a sleepover a few weeks ago, BUT it is healing so well that he will be able to be in a brace by the time school starts instead of the cast.
Angie works at Longhorn restaurant part-time and enjoys getting out of the house a little. I can imagine with four little ones running around!! Isn’t that amazing? I would never have thought of her with 4 children but I am so proud of her and Todd and Melinda, too, with their families. Todd continues to enjoy working with the fire dept. as well as at the trucking firm and Melinda teaches at a daycare. I encourage her to go back to school. It does make you feel so good, doesn’t it, to have grown children that are contributing to the world in a positive way??
You have amazing sons and I know how proud you are of them, too. I think of Link and his family often in Hawaii because Jim and I will be celebrating our 35th wedding anniversary in June 2006 and have hopes of spending a couple of weeks in Hawaii. We are hoping to see them one of the days of the trip. Of course, many factors will determine if we are able to make the trip but we will definitely be looking at it further after the first of the year. I would love to see your pictures again and get your suggestions on the “must see” places.
I understand Lance is in Texas and we still like it there, too. In fact, we just spent an anniversary trip this year in Austin and San Antonio. It sure has grown since we lived there!!
I better go for now and get things ready for my meeting this afternoon. Tomorrow and Friday are full days.
Remember I love you and will keep writing and keeping you informed about our family and what’s going on. You keep working hard to get well. You are so strong and I admire you so much!
FROM: JT
July 27 @ 8:07 AM
God Larry, how sad this makes me feel. You two have always held a special place in our hearts. Jack, keeps us updated pretty good with forwards from you. This makes my heart ache so much. For what it’s worth from someone who is so close to God in my own way, this is for you and Lea.
Almighty God, with your loving touch, reach into Lea’s soul and mend what needs to be and bring her back to Larry and all of us. Watch over Larry and see to his health in order for him to be with Lea and see to her. Please ease the pain for their children as well and give your blessings to them. Guide the Doctors and Nurse’s hands and keep there minds focused on Lea’s ordeal.
AMEN
Love to you and Lea from Addie & I and our kids! Hang in there!
FROM: Karen
July 27 @ 11:32 AM
Hi, Lea, just found your e-mail address and decided to take some time to let you know that we are praying non stop for you. We have a prayer chain going here in Illinois and Arizona from your Illinois family who loves you dearly. We are keeping in touch with Lance, Larry and whoever else will listen to us. Tomorrow we are going to your house to help Lance, he is one terrific son and well as Link, did talk to him a few times also.
Take care and keep fighting, we have lots and lots of things to do yet. I do know that you have the best doctors and nurses there doing there best around the clock. We are so thankful for that. Later. Love ya lots.
FROM: Marlowe
July 27 @ 12:40 PM
It’s good to hear that you are taking care of your own health-we don’t want two of you sick! It must be hard not to get a response to your efforts from Lea, but I believe that she must as some level (spiritual, subconscious) be aware of your presence. It must comfort her to hear your voice and feel your touch. What a gift it is to have such caring, attentive nursing staff and doctors! They are also in our prayers! God Bless.
FROM: Diane
July 27 @ 1:04 PM
Hi….. I’m at a loss for words right now and feeling a bit choked up. Even though you & I didn’t grow up together and haven’t had the opportunity to know each other well, you are my blood and that’s what matters the most. I have always felt that my White family members are a gift from God. While reading Lance’s web page and what others have written gave me goose bumps! It’s a true testament to Lea and you and the rest of our clan. I will continue to pray for all of you. For strength, healing and peace. If I can anything, however large or small, please don’t hesitate to ask. Love you ~
FROM: Dave
July 27 @ 5:42 PM
Dear Larry, Mickey has forwarded to me your messages about Lea. I was deeply saddened to learn of her illness and pray most earnestly and sincerely for her full recovery. I always considered Lea one of our finest employees and one of the loveliest persons I have ever known. She was always kind and friendly not only to me but also to all the other folks with whom she worked. It was a joy to see her at the office and be the recipient of her glowing and affectionate smile. When she regains consciousness, please give her my love and best wishes. Meanwhile, I want you to know I greatly admire your courage and positive attitude during this difficult time and that my prayers are for you and your family as well.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
July 27 @ 11:23 PM
Thank you, Mr. Fulton. Lea has always spoken with great admiration of your leadership skills, and the ability to pull folks together into a family of employees striving for continual improvement. She and I both hold you in the highest esteem, and I will be delighted to read your note to her tomorrow, and to make sure it is available to her when she awakens. Warmest regards.
FROM: Greg
July 27 @ 6:02 PM
Hi Larry: I’m sorry to hear that things are still difficult for Lea. I can only imagine what you are going through. I spoke with IT and they told me that things have been straightened out with your company computer. Can you please let me know if that is true and if you are still planning on teaching your schedule next week? We can still cover if you need the help.
Also, I spoke with SVP of HR, and he agreed that as a small extended benefit we will pay you 15 hours for last week and another 15 hours for this week considering your circumstances. I realize this is very little to offer at such a difficult time but we hope it can help in some way. You can add these hours to your future timesheets.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
July 27 @ 11:23 PM
I don’t know what to say. This is above and beyond. Thank you for working to achieve this!! I feel very privileged. I have received my replacement laptop, but the hard drive in the old computer would not work, as it was the problem. I sent the old computer back, along with a note requesting that they slave the drive and recover my webinar teaching materials, entrepreneurial notes, etc., and send those to me on CD. Hopefully I can get those back soon.
I am planning to pick up my schedule again as of next Monday, and continue from that point on. I may just as well be teaching, as sitting in the hospital waiting for her to come out of surgery every time. If a serious situation comes up, I will just have to try to get a sub at the last minute. I’m sorry I can’t be more reliable, but I know you understand the situation . . . I need the routine and distraction of the classes, and to wean myself from being with Lea all the time. Thank you again!
FROM: Barb S
July 27 @ 9:25 PM
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and to thank you for the updates. We pray that eventually we won’t have to watch for them, that Lea is home and making a full recovery. She is lucky to have you and I don’t think you are being selfish. If the time would ever come that they could do no more to help Lea, I know you would do the right thing and follow her wishes. You love her that much. She is a very special lady.
I went over to Carl’s tonight and got the rest of the stuff we never finished going through of Mom’s. We found Dad’s quest book or ledger. It was in that big old trunk on the back porch. Going through pics. I ran across one that will put a smile on your face. I’ll try to send it tomorrow. Ok, I’m done. I can get long winded.
FROM: JB
July 27 @ 11:12 PM
Larry, It was with great sadness that I heard of Lea’s trouble while you all were on vacation back east. I have been in Colorado and so Kay has been keeping me updated when I was able to reach her. Lea has been in my prayers and thoughts ever since I heard she was hospitalized. Kay has read me your emails when I was able to call her. Now that I’m home maybe we can have a chance to talk soon. You tell Lea that Kay and I hope and pray for her quick recovery and will be with her all the way in spirit and and keep her in your prayers as she goes though this! You too have my prayers for the strength and wisdom it takes in times such as this. If there is anything we can do, you know to call on me and I will do my best to get it done for you. God is with you, may you find peace in his hands. Love to you both.
FROM: Shana
July 27 @ 1:32 PM
Hi Larry, Hope everything is going okay today. Please let us know the results of your stress test. I think it would be wonderful for you to be able to continue your rehab while you are there. We (the work group) are getting ready to send you a “care” package and I just happened to think there may be something in particular you need. Is there anything you can think of? Maybe a favorite hard cardy, chewing gum, magazine, CD, anything like that. Please let me know and we will be sure to include it. Otherwise, you will have to deal with what “we” think you may need and that could be a little dangerous :8) Please know you guys are never far from our thoughts and continue to be in our prayers.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
July 27 @ 2:32 PM
Oooh, thank you so much for your thoughtfulness! The only thing that comes to mind is a “small” hair pick. I broke a tooth out of the one I’ve been doing her hair with. I can’t lift her head to do the back, because of the fluid build up (and pain), so a small one is preferred to do what hair I can reach.
FROM: Shana
July 27 @ 4:08 PM
Consider it included. If you think of anything else over the next couple of days, please don’t hesitate to let me know. Also, I wanted to let you know that Gary called Lance about the Mustang. They haven’t actually talked yet and I hope you don’t have a problem with our interest in it. If so, we will not pursue it any further.
REPLY FROM: Larry Vaughn
July 27 @ 11:37 PM
Of course not. Go ahead. Lea would like to know that you have it.